Sexual Health
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What Is Sexual Health?
Sexual health is a state of physical, emotional, mental, and social well-being in relation to sexuality. It goes beyond the absence of disease or dysfunction and involves a positive and respectful approach to sexual relationships; the ability to experience pleasure, the ability to express sexuality safely, and to gain access to proper education and healthcare. There are five key components of Sexual Health: Physical well-being, emotional and psychological health, social and relationship aspects, safe and responsible sexual practices, and sexual rights and education.
When Do You See a Specialist Concerning Sexual Health?
Seeking help from a healthcare specialist is important when sexual health issues affect your physical, emotional, or relational well-being. Sexual health is a vital part of overall health, and specialists can provide medical, psychological, and emotional support.
If you experience ongoing difficulties with sexual function, consider seeing a specialist—either a gynecologist, urologist, endocrinologist, psychologist, or sex therapist or counselor. Common concerns include:
Low Libido (Low Sexual Desire) – Persistent lack of interest in sex.
Erectile Dysfunction (ED) – Difficulty getting or maintaining an erection.
Premature or Delayed Ejaculation – Difficulty controlling ejaculation timing.
Anorgasmia (Inability to Orgasm) – Difficulty reaching climax despite adequate stimulation.
Dyspareunia (painful sex) – Painful intercourse, often linked to infections, hormonal changes, or pelvic disorders.
Vaginismus – Involuntary tightening of vaginal muscles, making penetration painful or impossible.
One may also seek a specialist for fertility and reproductive concerns, if one has persistent pain or physical symptoms during sex, if one has psychological or emotional concerns related to sexuality – such as sexual trauma, anxiety related to sex, relationship problems affecting intimacy, or if one needs gender identity and sexual orientation support.
How Can Well by Messer Help You with Sexual Health?
Well by Messer is a holistic metabolic health and wellness center, offering a multidisciplinary approach to various health conditions, including sexual health issues.
Under our team of endocrinologists, led by Dr. Caroline Messer, we conduct comprehensive evaluations to identify and address underlying endocrine issues contributing to sexual health. In addition to our endocrinologist team, gynecologist, Dr. Alyssa Dweck, a certified menopause provider, focuses on gynecology, menopause, and sexual health. Dr. Jess Kovler is an award-winning psychologist specializing in cognitive, behavioral, and dialectic therapies. She addresses psychological factors contributing to sexual dysfunctions, offering therapies such as Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and mindfulness-based interventions. Finally, Dr. Aaron Grotas, is a board-certified urologist focusing on optimizing fertility and sexual health.
By integrating these specialties, Well by Messer provides a holistic approach to sexual health, ensuring comprehensive and personalized care for their patients.
Meet the Well by Messer (WBM) Team
Under the leadership of top endocrinologist in New York, Dr. Caroline Messer, our caring and talented team of board-certified endocrinologists, gynecologists, psychologists, nutritionists, and personal trainers will be dedicated to supporting your success at our metabolic centers in Manhattan.
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